There’s no date stamp on when our minds and hearts started to get fcked up to the degree where men and women often see each other as opposing partners and the cause of all evil. Make no mistake though, whoever cooked up this plan of turning us against each other, has not only caged women, but has equally castrated men.

Starting off with a big bang, female orgasm. Pun intended 😅

A couple hundred years ago, a woman’s desire for sex and orgasm were viewed as a sign of hysteria and treatments were prescribed for it. Taking it a step further into ignorance, clitoral orgasm was viewed as puerile, and indicative of lesbianism. 

While the latter thankfully no longer holds a grip over people’s minds, it is still widely thought by many men and women that if a female partner can only or mostly orgasm through clitoral stimulation, then there must be something wrong with her. 

Stop and think about this for a second. We shouldn’t even be talking about this topic, because it should be a no brainer. Yet we are. 

Here are some basic facts: 

1. The clit is the female version of the penis
2. The clitoris contains about 10 thousand nerve fibers. 10 thousand! And all those little nerve endings serve one purpose. Yes. Pleasure. 
3. The vaginal wall, which gets rubbed and stimulated during penetration, is nowhere near in nerve count compared to the clitoris, and there’s a reason for it. Often called the birth canal, its reduced nerve count is thought to be attributable to a woman’s body coping with the pain of childbirth. 

As a friend and mentor of mine said it many times over the years, ladies, grab a mirror and check what you have down there. You won’t see the nerve fibers, but if you know and feel how your honey pot works, you can educate your man on how to best attend to you. And gentleman, you too! Look, feel, touch, watch the response you get from your woman. Ask questions and listen to what she says. Don’t just aim for the hole and expect fireworks 🙂

Here’s a playful little article in the bio about the clit and ways to make it dance.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/clitoris?c=1189769010881